Membership Tiers

Membership at SOV is intentionally tiered, designed to reflect the different levels of access, engagement, and personalization our members may seek.

We understand that desire looks different for everyone.

Whether you're beginning to explore or ready to immerse yourself more deeply, our membership structure allows us to offer a tailored experience that meets you exactly where you are.

Sable Member

Preliminary Membership

Sable Membership is extended to individuals whose applications have been approved and who are invited to begin their journey with SOV through a carefully curated introduction to the community. This tier offers access to foundational experiences while allowing space for thoughtful observation and mutual alignment.

The Sable period typically lasts between 3 and 12 months, depending on how actively a member engages and how clearly they demonstrate alignment with our standards. Those who attend consistently, interact respectfully, and show a sincere interest in the culture we’ve built are often invited to advance more quickly.

Included Access:

Invitations to our Monthly Socials, hosted at refined venues and designed for relaxed, intentional conversation
A Sensual Mapping Consultation and formalized profile, offering personalized insights and guidance
Access to select educational workshops, classes, and dinners. Available on a pay-per-event basis
Invitations to occasional public panels and discussion sessions
Ongoing communication from our team to support your experience during this phase
Active review and consideration for advancement to Onyx Membership

Sable is not a final destination—it is a focused period of presence, connection, and consideration. For those who are engaged and aligned, it serves as a clear path forward.

Onyx Member

Full Membership

Onyx Membership is offered by invitation to individuals who have successfully completed the Sable phase and demonstrated the values, presence, and discretion we expect at our highest tier of access.

This membership reflects full integration into the community, and grants access to our most private experiences, advanced programming, and personalized support. Onyx Members are not simply attendees—they are active participants in everything SOV offers at its most refined level.

Included Access:

Complimentary access to all Sable-level offerings
Invitations to Quarterly Nocturne Evenings, our private flagship events
Access to the Annual Soirée Weekend, a destination experience designed for immersive sensual exploration and elegant connection.
Invitations to Onyx-only gatherings, including private dinners, spa experiences, and member forums.
A Sensual Mapping Consultation and formalized profile, offering personalized insights and guidance
Member pricing for private event curation with the access to the full SOV event production support.
Ongoing access to a dedicated Member Concierge.
Access to The Vault.
Voting power to contribute feedback and shape future programming.